{"id":5874,"date":"2017-06-17T23:02:09","date_gmt":"2017-06-18T03:02:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.co\/?p=5874"},"modified":"2017-06-17T23:02:09","modified_gmt":"2017-06-18T03:02:09","slug":"the-responsibility-of-raising-girls-its-virtues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/?p=5874","title":{"rendered":"The Responsibility of Raising Girls &amp; Its Virtues"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0628\u0633\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u064a\u0645<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Below is a combination of many Prophetic Ahadith narrated on the topic of raising girls and its rewards.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The Messenger of Allah \ufdfa said, \u201cWhoever has three daughters, or three sisters, and<\/p>\n<ol style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li>fears Allah regarding them,<a href=\"#_edn1\" name=\"_ednref1\">[i]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>takes up the responsibility of caring for them,<a href=\"#_edn2\" name=\"_ednref2\">[ii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>supports them,<a href=\"#_edn3\" name=\"_ednref3\">[iii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>spends on them,<a href=\"#_edn4\" name=\"_ednref4\">[iv]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>gives them shelter,<a href=\"#_edn5\" name=\"_ednref5\">[v]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>feeds them,<a href=\"#_edn6\" name=\"_ednref6\">[vi]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>gives them to drink,<a href=\"#_edn7\" name=\"_ednref7\">[vii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>clothes them from his wealth,<a href=\"#_edn8\" name=\"_ednref8\">[viii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>conceals them,<a href=\"#_edn9\" name=\"_ednref9\">[ix]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>treats them kindly,<a href=\"#_edn10\" name=\"_ednref10\">[x]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>disciplines them,<a href=\"#_edn11\" name=\"_ednref11\">[xi]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>gives them a good upbringing,<a href=\"#_edn12\" name=\"_ednref12\">[xii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>prevents them (from wrongdoing)<a href=\"#_edn13\" name=\"_ednref13\">[xiii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>is patient towards them,<a href=\"#_edn14\" name=\"_ednref14\">[xiv]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>keeps good company with them,<a href=\"#_edn15\" name=\"_ednref15\">[xv]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>has mercy on them,<a href=\"#_edn16\" name=\"_ednref16\">[xvi]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>is sufficient for them,<a href=\"#_edn17\" name=\"_ednref17\">[xvii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>does not bury them alive,<a href=\"#_edn18\" name=\"_ednref18\">[xviii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>does not humiliate them,<a href=\"#_edn19\" name=\"_ednref19\">[xix]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>does not prefer his (male) children over them,<a href=\"#_edn20\" name=\"_ednref20\">[xx]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>(does all this) until they reach maturity and then,<a href=\"#_edn21\" name=\"_ednref21\">[xxi]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>marries them off,<a href=\"#_edn22\" name=\"_ednref22\">[xxii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>or they die,<a href=\"#_edn23\" name=\"_ednref23\">[xxiii]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li>For him is the rewards of the <em>mujahid<\/em> in path of Allah while fasting and standing (in prayer),<a href=\"#_edn24\" name=\"_ednref24\">[xxiv]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>They will be a barrier for him on the Day of Judgment from the Hell Fire,<a href=\"#_edn25\" name=\"_ednref25\">[xxv]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>And I and he will come on the Day of Judgement like this (and the Prophet closed his fingers)<a href=\"#_edn26\" name=\"_ednref26\">[xxvi]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>And he will enter Paradise,<a href=\"#_edn27\" name=\"_ednref27\">[xxvii]<\/a><\/li>\n<li>I and he will enter Paradise like these two (And the Prophet indicated with his two fingers.)\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">A Sahabi asked, \u201cAnd two, O Messenger of Allah?\u201d He \ufdfa replied, \u201cEven two.\u201d<a href=\"#_edn28\" name=\"_ednref28\">[xxviii]<\/a> A Sahabi said, \u201cIf someone had asked, \u2018And one?\u2019 he \ufdfa would have replied, \u2018Even one.\u2019\u201d<a href=\"#_edn29\" name=\"_ednref29\">[xxix]<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">There is a narration of &#8216;Sunan Ibn Majah&#8217; where the Messenger \ufdfa\u00a0explicitly mentions the above for raising even one daughter.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a style=\"font-size: 14px;\" href=\"#_ednref1\" name=\"_edn1\">[i]<\/a><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"> Tirmidhi #1916, Ahmed in Musnad Vol.6 Pg.27 (\u0627\u062a\u0642\u0649)<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref2\" name=\"_edn2\">[ii]<\/a> Ahmed in Musnad Vol.3 Pg.303 (\u062a\u0643\u0641\u0644)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref3\" name=\"_edn3\">[iii]<\/a> Muslim in Sahih #2631 (\u0639\u0627\u0644)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref4\" name=\"_edn4\">[iv]<\/a> Ahmed in Musnad Vol.6 Pg.27 &amp; 29, Tabarani in Kabir Vol.18 Pg.56 #102 (\u0623\u0646\u0641\u0642)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref5\" name=\"_edn5\">[v]<\/a> Ahmed in Musnad Vol.3 Pg.303, Bukhari in Adabul Mufrad #78 (\u064a\u0624\u0648\u064a)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref6\" name=\"_edn6\">[vi]<\/a> Ibn Majah #3669, Ahmed in Musnad #17403 (\u0623\u0637\u0639\u0645)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref7\" name=\"_edn7\">[vii]<\/a> Ibn Majah #3669, Ahmed in Musnad #17403 (\u0633\u0642\u0649)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref8\" name=\"_edn8\">[viii]<\/a> Ibn Majah #3669, Ahmed in Musnad #17403, Bukhari in Adabul Mufrad #76 (\u0643\u0633\u0627\u0647\u0646 \u0645\u0646 \u062c\u062f\u062a\u0647)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref9\" name=\"_edn9\">[ix]<\/a> Bazzar in Musnad, Kashful Asrar Vol.2 Pg.384 #1908 (\u0633\u062a\u0631) or it can mean, \u201cclothe them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref10\" name=\"_edn10\">[x]<\/a> Abu Dawud #5147, Ahmed in Musnad #11924 (\u0623\u062d\u0633\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0649)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref11\" name=\"_edn11\">[xi]<\/a> Abu Dawud #5147, Ahmed in Musnad #11924 (\u0623\u062f\u0628)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref12\" name=\"_edn12\">[xii]<\/a> Tabarani in Kabir Vol.11 Pg.216-217 #11542 (\u0623\u062d\u0633\u0646 \u0623\u062f\u0628\u0647\u0646)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref13\" name=\"_edn13\">[xiii]<\/a> Tabarani in Awsat Vol.6 Pg.205 #6199 (\u0643\u0641) or it can mean, \u201cprotected them,\u201d \u201ctook them in.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref14\" name=\"_edn14\">[xiv]<\/a> Ibn Majah #3669, Bukhari in Adabul Mufrad #76 (\u0635\u0628\u0631 \u0639\u0644\u0649)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref15\" name=\"_edn15\">[xv]<\/a> Tirmidhi #1916, Bukhari in Adabul Mufrad #77 (\u0623\u062d\u0633\u0646 \u0635\u062d\u0628\u0629)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref16\" name=\"_edn16\">[xvi]<\/a> Ahmed in Musnad Vol.3 Pg.303 (\u0631\u062d\u0645)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref17\" name=\"_edn17\">[xvii]<\/a> Bukhari in Adabul Mufrad #78 (\u064a\u0643\u0641\u064a)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref18\" name=\"_edn18\">[xviii]<\/a> Abu Dawud #5146 (\u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0626\u062f)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref19\" name=\"_edn19\">[xix]<\/a> Abu Dawud #5146 (\u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0647\u0646)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref20\" name=\"_edn20\">[xx]<\/a> Abu Dawud #5146 (\u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0624\u062b\u0631 \u0648\u0644\u062f\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647\u0627)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref21\" name=\"_edn21\">[xxi]<\/a> Ibn Majah #3670 (\u062d\u062a\u0649 \u0628\u0644\u063a\u0646)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref22\" name=\"_edn22\">[xxii]<\/a> Abu Dawud #5147, Bukhari in Adabul Mufrad #78 (\u0632\u0648\u062c)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref23\" name=\"_edn23\">[xxiii]<\/a> Ahmed in Musnad Vol.6 Pg.27 &amp; 29, Tabarani in Kabir Vol.18 Pg.56 #102 (\u0645\u062a\u0646)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref24\" name=\"_edn24\">[xxiv]<\/a> Bazzar in Musnad, Kashful Asrar Vol.2 Pg.384-285 #1909<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref25\" name=\"_edn25\">[xxv]<\/a> Tirmidhi #1915, Ibn Majah #3669, Ahmed in Musnad Vol.6 Pg.27 &amp; 29, Tabarani in Kabir Vol.18 Pg.56 #102<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref26\" name=\"_edn26\">[xxvi]<\/a> Muslim in Sahih #2631<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref27\" name=\"_edn27\">[xxvii]<\/a> Abu Dawud #5146, Tirmidhi #1912<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref28\" name=\"_edn28\">[xxviii]<\/a> Tirmidhi #1914, Abu Dawud #5148 \u201ctwo daughters or two sisters.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ednref29\" name=\"_edn29\">[xxix]<\/a> Ahmed in Musnad Vol.3 Pg.303<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0628\u0633\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u064a\u0645 Below is a combination of many Prophetic Ahadith narrated on the topic of raising girls and its rewards. 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