{"id":5721,"date":"2017-03-06T08:10:46","date_gmt":"2017-03-06T12:10:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.co\/?p=5721"},"modified":"2017-03-06T08:10:46","modified_gmt":"2017-03-06T12:10:46","slug":"should-i-please-my-mother-or-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/?p=5721","title":{"rendered":"Should I Please my Mother or Wife?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Question:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If, in the absence of the husband, his mother takes a lot of work from his wife and criticises her without any fault and sometimes it is like this, that it is not permissible in Shariah, such events also occur. Her husband listens to everything. However, if he goes to stop his mother, then everyone pounces on him. His mother says that you have become hers and you do not obey my orders. He does not want to displease his mother. So, since her husband is in such a situation, what should he do?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Answer:\u00a0\u062d\u0627\u0645\u062f\u0627 \u0648\u0645\u0635\u0644\u064a\u0627 \u0648\u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645\u0627<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It is <strong>not<\/strong> permissible to obey one\u2019s parents in matters that are impermissible in Shariah. (\u062a\u0639\u062f\u064a\u0644 \u062d\u0642\u0648\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0648\u0644\u062f\u064a\u0646, \u0631\u0633\u0627\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0645\u062f\u0627\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0641\u062a\u0627\u0648\u0649 4:484)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Such things happen due to ignorance of the laws of Shariah. The husband should fully inform his parents about them (the laws of Shariah).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And Allah Ta\u2019ala knows best.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">(Hazrat Mufti) Ahmed Khanpuri (May Allah preserve him.)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Mahmoodul Fatawa<\/span> Vol.4 Pg.786-787<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: If, in the absence of the husband, his mother takes a lot of work from his wife and criticises her without any fault and&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_editorskit_title_hidden":false,"_editorskit_reading_time":0,"_editorskit_is_block_options_detached":false,"_editorskit_block_options_position":"{}","footnotes":""},"categories":[56,59,62,76],"tags":[111,226],"class_list":["post-5721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mother","category-nikah-marriage","category-pious-women","category-wife","tag-ahmed-khanpuri","tag-mahmoodul-fatawa","wpcat-56-id","wpcat-59-id","wpcat-62-id","wpcat-76-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5721","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5721"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5721\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}