{"id":5517,"date":"2016-12-03T00:27:21","date_gmt":"2016-12-03T04:27:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.co\/?p=5517"},"modified":"2016-12-03T00:27:21","modified_gmt":"2016-12-03T04:27:21","slug":"jealousy-the-destroyer-of-iman-the-deen-and-good-deeds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/?p=5517","title":{"rendered":"Jealousy: The Destroyer of Iman and Its Definition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0628\u0633\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0645\u062d\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u064a\u0645<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Jealousy is one of the most destructive of evil traits but,\u00a0unfortunately, so many of us are afflicted with it without even knowing. The Messenger of Allah (\u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645) has spoken very harshly concerning this evil trait. He (\u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645) said,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201c<strong>Iman and jealousy never come together in the heart of a servant.<\/strong>\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We have mentioned a few more ahadith on this issue at the end of this article.\u00a0It is extremely <strong>important<\/strong> that we understand the wide scope of jealousy so we may refrain from it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Definition of Jealousy<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u062a\u0645\u0646\u064a \u0632\u0648\u0627\u0644 \u0646\u0639\u0645\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u063a\u064a\u0631<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>To wish or hope another person loses his blessing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Blessing is general, whether of a worldly nature or a religious one. Religious blessings include Islamic knowledge, <em>ebadah<\/em>, <em>dawah<\/em> and piety etc. Worldly blessings include things like health, strength, beauty, skills, wealth and position etc.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Jealousy or hoping that another losses a blessing includes a number of scenarios:<\/p>\n<ol style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li>Person A wishes B loses a blessing even though A does not care to acquire that blessing. This is the worst form of jealousy. It clearly points to the extent of malice filling\u00a0a person\u2019s heart.<\/li>\n<li>Person A wishes B loses a blessing and that it is transferred to A. For instance he wishes B loses his wife and he marries her.<\/li>\n<li>Person A wishes to receive a similar blessing that B possess. Whether\u00a0A receives \u00a0this blessing or not, he hopes that B losses it. For instance B has a car. A wishes that he also gets a similar car. Whether A gets a similar\u00a0car\u00a0or for some reason is unable to get it, he wants that B loses his car.<\/li>\n<li>Person A hopes that B remains in a sad or bad state. For instance, B is poor or ignorant or deviated or oppressed or grieved or weak and A hopes that B remains in any of those or any other bad conditions.<\/li>\n<li>To wish any harm for a Muslim.<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[2]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>N.B.<\/strong> Jealousy is an action of the heart. Simply entertaining such thoughts is jealousy. If one acts on it by backbiting, slandering, defaming or physically harming the other person then that is a second sin.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">All of these cases come under the ambit of jealousy as explained by Imam Ghazali and Ibn Qaiyyim Jawziyyah. It is incumbent on us to look into our hearts and see if we have any such feelings towards any of our brothers or sisters. If we do, we must repent and ask Allah to forgive us. Then we must immediately start loving for all our Muslim brothers and sisters what we love for ourselves. We should make dua of prosperity and increase in all forms of blessings for those whom we previously had malice towards. Without this, we lose our Iman as the hadith above warned. The Messenger of Allah (\u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645) also categorically said that, \u201c<strong>None of you are believers until you love for your brother what you love for yourself.<\/strong>\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\">[3]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>He (\u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645)\u00a0also warned,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201c<strong>The disease of the nations before you is creeping towards you: Jealousy and hatred, it is the Haliqah (shaver). I do not speak of what shaves the hair, but what uproots the religion.<\/strong>\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[4]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>He (\u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645) also cautioned,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201c<strong>Beware of jealousy<\/strong>, <strong>because it consumes good-deeds like how fire consumes dry wood.<\/strong>\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[5]<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ibn Qaiyyim says that the jealous person is a soldier of Iblis, rather one of his vicegerents (khalifah) and substitutes.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">May Allah allow us to purify our hearts from all forms of malice and jealousy and may He allow us to meet Him on the Day of Judgment with a sound and pure heart. Aameen<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Sunan Nasai #3109<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Taken from \u2018Ihyaa Uloom Deen\u2019 by Imam Ghazali Vol.9 Pg.1676 and \u2018Zammul Hasad\u2019 by Ibn Qaiyyim Jawziyyah<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a>\u00a0Sahih Bukhari #13<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a>\u00a0Sunan Tirmithi #2510<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a>\u00a0Sunan Abu Dawud #4903<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0628\u0633\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0645\u062d\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062d\u064a\u0645 Jealousy is one of the most destructive of evil traits but,\u00a0unfortunately, so many of us are afflicted with it without even&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_editorskit_title_hidden":false,"_editorskit_reading_time":0,"_editorskit_is_block_options_detached":false,"_editorskit_block_options_position":"{}","footnotes":""},"categories":[33,38,62],"tags":[208],"class_list":["post-5517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-etiquettes-sunan-wa-aadaab","category-pious-women","tag-jealousy","wpcat-33-id","wpcat-38-id","wpcat-62-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5517"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5517\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}