{"id":3771,"date":"2015-04-26T17:38:58","date_gmt":"2015-04-26T21:38:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/?p=3771"},"modified":"2015-04-26T17:38:58","modified_gmt":"2015-04-26T21:38:58","slug":"befriend-girl-intention-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/?p=3771","title":{"rendered":"To Befriend a Girl With The Intention of Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Question:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I am a doctor and will like to marry a female doctor with good character. However, due to the corruption of society I am frightened. There is a young female doctor that works in this hospital that seems to have good character. She is punctual in her salah and wears a scarf. At the moment I do not have any relationship with her. Will it be permissible for me, with the intention of marriage, to build a friendship with her to get to know her private\u00a0condition better? So that I am at ease. Please advice me in the light of Shariah.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Answer:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In the above question the\u00a0method you have mentioned is not permissible or correct in Shariah. To find out about the character and habits of a woman the best manner is to ask her female neighbors and relatives. Women are the most knowledgeable of other women&#8217;s personalities.<\/p>\n<p>Since you have already seen her it is not lawful\u00a0for you to keep on looking at her.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645: &#8220;\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062e\u0644\u0648\u0646 \u0631\u062c\u0644 \u0628\u0627\u0645\u0631\u0623\u0629\u060c \u0644\u064a\u0633 \u0645\u0646\u0647\u0627 \u0628\u0633\u0628\u064a\u0644\u060c \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0634\u064a\u0637\u0627\u0646 \u062b\u0627\u0644\u062b\u0647\u0645\u0627&#8221;\u00a0\u0648\u0642\u062f \u0631\u0648\u064a \u0645\u0646 \u062d\u062f\u064a\u062b \u0639\u0645\u0631\u060c \u0648\u0627\u0628\u0646 \u0639\u0645\u0631\u060c \u0648\u062c\u0627\u0628\u0631 \u0628\u0646 \u0633\u0645\u0631\u0629\u060c \u0648\u0639\u0627\u0645\u0631 \u0628\u0646 \u0631\u0628\u064a\u0639\u0629\u060c \u0648\u0644\u064a\u0633 \u0641\u064a\u0647: \u0642\u0648\u0644\u0647: &#8220;\u0644\u064a\u0633 \u0645\u0646\u0647\u0627 \u0628\u0633\u0628\u064a\u0644&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u0646\u0635\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0627\u064a\u0629 4:249<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u0648\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062c\u0648\u0632 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062c\u0644 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u062c\u0646\u0628\u064a\u0629 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0648\u062c\u0647\u0647\u0627 \u0648\u0643\u0641\u064a\u0647\u0627\u00a0\u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0623\u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0647\u0648\u0629 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0648\u062c\u0647\u0647\u0627 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0644\u062d\u0627\u062c\u0629 \u0644\u0642\u0648\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0644\u0627\u0629 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 \u0645\u0646 \u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0645\u062d\u0627\u0633\u0646 \u0627\u0645\u0631\u0623\u0629 \u0623\u062c\u0646\u0628\u064a\u0629 \u0639\u0646 \u0634\u0647\u0648\u0629 \u0635\u0628 \u0641\u064a \u0639\u064a\u0646\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u0646\u0643 \u064a\u0648\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0642\u064a\u0627\u0645\u0629 \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u062e\u0627\u0641 \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0647\u0648\u0629 \u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0645\u0646 \u063a\u064a\u0631 \u062d\u0627\u062c\u0629 \u062a\u062d\u0631\u0632\u0627 \u0639\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062d\u0631\u0645 \u0648\u0642\u0648\u0644\u0647 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0623\u0645\u0646 \u064a\u062f\u0644 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0623\u0646\u0647 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0628\u0627\u062d \u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0634\u0643 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0627\u0634\u062a\u0647\u0627\u0621 \u0643\u0645\u0627 \u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0639\u0644\u0645 \u0623\u0648 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0623\u0643\u0628\u0631 \u0631\u0623\u064a\u0647 \u0630\u0644\u0643<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u0627\u0644\u0647\u062f\u0627\u064a\u0629 4:458 \u0643\u062a\u0627\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0631\u0627\u0647\u064a\u0629 \u0641\u0635\u0644 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0648\u0637\u0626 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0648 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0645\u0633<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It is mentioned in Durr Mukhtaar (6:369):<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u0648\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u0643\u0644\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0627\u062c\u0646\u0628\u064a\u0629<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">(It is not permissible to speak to an <em>ajnabiyah<\/em> (non-mahram).)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It is mentioned in Majmooah Qawaaneen Ismali:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;It is haram for both of them to meet in seclusion.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u0648\u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0627\u0634\u0628\u0627\u0647 : \u0627\u0644\u062e\u0644\u0648\u0629 \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0627\u062c\u0646\u0628\u064a\u0629 \u062d\u0631\u0627\u0645<\/strong> &lt;\u0627\u0644\u062f\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062e\u062a\u0627\u0631 3:323<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">(Majmooah Qawaaneen Ismali Pg.37 Code.11 with footnote)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">And Allah knows best.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">(Hazrat Mufti) Radhaaul Haqq (May Allah preserve him)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Fatawa Darul Uloom Zakariyah<\/span> (Vol.3 Pg.540-541)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I am a doctor and will like to marry a female doctor with good character. 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