{"id":1331,"date":"2013-11-21T00:15:53","date_gmt":"2013-11-21T04:15:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/?p=1331"},"modified":"2013-11-21T00:15:53","modified_gmt":"2013-11-21T04:15:53","slug":"eddah-hidaad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/?p=1331","title":{"rendered":"E'ddah and Hidaad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ahkaamul E’ddah<\/span><\/p>\n

Allah Ta’aalaa commands in the Quran:<\/p>\n

\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0637\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0651\u0642\u064e\u0627\u062a\u064f \u064a\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0651\u0635\u0652\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0623\u064e\u0646\u0641\u064f\u0633\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0651 \u062b\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0642\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u064e\u0621\u064d <\/b><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0“The divorcee will wait for three “haidh”(menstrual cycles). {Baqarah: 228}<\/p>\n

\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u062e\u0652\u0631\u0650\u062c\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0651 \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0628\u064f\u064a\u064f\u0648\u062a\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0651 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u062e\u0652\u0631\u064f\u062c\u0652\u0646\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0651\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0623\u0652\u062a\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0641\u064e\u0627\u062d\u0650\u0634\u064e\u0629\u064d <\/b><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0“Do not expel them from their houses and they should not leave their houses.” {Surah Talaq: 1}<\/p>\n

During her e’ddah, the widow is allowed to leave her home in the daytime to work in the situation that there is no one to support her financially.<\/p>\n

However, the divorcee <\/b>is not <\/b>allowed to leave at all, in the day or night, during her e’ddah. This is because the expense is on the husband. So she does not have to leave to support herself financially. Similarly if the widow is financially independent then she will not be allowed to leave the confines of the home.<\/p>\n

(\u0648\u0645\u0639\u062a\u062f\u0629 \u0645\u0648\u062a \u062a\u062e\u0631\u062c \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u062c\u062f\u064a\u062f\u064a\u0646 \u0648\u062a\u0628\u064a\u062a) \u0623\u0643\u062b\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u064a\u0644 (\u0641\u064a \u0645\u0646\u0632\u0644\u0647\u0627) \u0644\u0623\u0646 \u0646\u0641\u0642\u062a\u0647\u0627 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647\u0627 \u0641\u062a\u062d\u062a\u0627\u062c \u0644\u0644\u062e\u0631\u0648\u062c\u060c \u062d\u062a\u0649 \u0644\u0648 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0639\u0646\u062f\u0647\u0627 \u0643\u0641\u0627\u064a\u062a\u0647\u0627 \u0635\u0627\u0631\u062a \u0643\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0637\u0644\u0642\u0629 \u0641\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062d\u0644 \u0644\u0647\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u062e\u0631\u0648\u062c \u0641\u062a\u062d.<\/b> <\/b>(\u0648\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u062e\u0631\u062c \u0645\u0639\u062a\u062f\u0629 \u0631\u062c\u0639\u064a \u0648\u0628\u0627\u0626\u0646)<\/b> ) <\/b>\u0645\u0646 \u0628\u064a\u062a\u0647\u0627 \u0623\u0635\u0644\u0627) \u0644\u0627 \u0644\u064a\u0644\u0627 \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u0646\u0647\u0627\u0631\u0627 \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0635\u062d\u0646 \u062f\u0627\u0631 \u0641\u064a\u0647\u0627 \u0645\u0646\u0627\u0632\u0644 \u0644\u063a\u064a\u0631\u0647 \u0648\u0644\u0648 \u0628\u0625\u0630\u0646\u0647 \u0644\u0623\u0646\u0647 \u062d\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u062a\u0639\u0627\u0644\u0649. <\/b><\/p>\n

(Durr Mukhtaar with Shaami 3\/535-536)<\/p>\n

Question: <\/span><\/p>\n

Zainab is in eddah. Only one month has passed and her mother passed away. Is she allowed to go to her house?<\/p>\n

Answer: <\/span><\/p>\n

If Zainab is in an e’ddah of divorce then she is not allowed to leave the house for this purpose, neither in the day or night.<\/p>\n

(Kitabul Fatawa 5\/144)<\/p>\n

The above Q & A shows the seriousness and importance of staying home in e’ddah.<\/p>\n

<\/b>Hidaad<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

(Leaving out beautification in the E’ddah) \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062f\u0627\u062f \u062a\u0631\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0632\u064a\u0646\u0629 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u062f\u0629<\/p>\n

When in e’ddah, due to husband’s death or an irrevocable divorce, it is wajib to stay away from things of beautification like, beautiful clothing, colourful ones, all types and colours of silk, all types of jewellery, perfume, oil in hair, creams, make-up, kuhl (antimony) etc. unless for medical reasons. Styling her hair is also prohibited as is combing it with a fine teeth comb. She is however allowed to fix it so she is not disheveled.<\/p>\n

(\u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0643\u0627\u0646\u062a \u0645\u0639\u062a\u062f\u0629 \u0628\u062a\u060c \u0623\u0648 \u0645\u0648\u062a) (\u0628\u062a\u0631\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0632\u064a\u0646\u0629) \u0628\u062d\u0644\u064a <\/b>\u0623\u064a \u0628\u062c\u0645\u064a\u0639 \u0623\u0646\u0648\u0627\u0639\u0647<\/b> \u0623\u0648 \u062d\u0631\u064a\u0631\u060c \u0623\u0648 \u0627\u0645\u062a\u0634\u0627\u0637 \u0628\u0636\u064a\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0633\u0646\u0627\u0646 (\u0648\u0627\u0644\u0637\u064a\u0628) \u0648\u0625\u0646 \u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0643\u0646 \u0644\u0647\u0627 \u0643\u0633\u0628 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0641\u064a\u0647 (\u0648\u0627\u0644\u062f\u0647\u0646) \u0648\u0644\u0648 \u0628\u0644\u0627 \u0637\u064a\u0628 \u0643\u0632\u064a\u062a \u062e\u0627\u0644\u0635 (\u0648\u0627\u0644\u0643\u062d\u0644 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u062d\u0646\u0627\u0621 \u0648\u0644\u0628\u0633 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0639\u0635\u0641\u0631 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0632\u0639\u0641\u0631) \u0648\u0645\u0635\u0628\u0648\u063a \u0628\u0645\u063a\u0631\u0629\u060c \u0623\u0648 \u0648\u0631\u0633 (\u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0628\u0639\u0630\u0631) \u0631\u0627\u062c\u0639 \u0644\u0644\u062c\u0645\u064a\u0639 \u0625\u0630 \u0627\u0644\u0636\u0631\u0648\u0631\u0627\u062a \u062a\u0628\u064a\u062d \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062d\u0638\u0648\u0631\u0627\u062a\u060c \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u0628\u0623\u0633 \u0628\u0623\u0633\u0648\u062f \u0648\u0623\u0632\u0631\u0642 \u0648\u0645\u0639\u0635\u0641\u0631 \u062e\u0644\u0642 \u0644\u0627 \u0631\u0627\u0626\u062d\u0629 \u0644\u0647<\/b><\/p>\n

(Shaami 3\/530-531, Heavenly Ornaments 1\/411)<\/p>\n

Proposals<\/b> of nikah is haram to or from a woman in E’ddah. Any Nikah conducted will be invalid.<\/p>\n

(\u062a\u062d\u0631\u0645 \u062e\u0637\u0628\u062a\u0647\u0627)<\/b> <\/b>(\u0648\u064a\u0646\u0643\u062d \u0645\u0628\u0627\u0646\u062a\u0647 \u0628\u0645\u0627 \u062f\u0648\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062b\u0644\u0627\u062b \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u062f\u0629 \u0648\u0628\u0639\u062f\u0647\u0627 \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0625\u062c\u0645\u0627\u0639) \u0648\u0645\u0646\u0639 \u063a\u064a\u0631\u0647 \u0641\u064a\u0647\u0627 \u0644\u0627\u0634\u062a\u0628\u0627\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0633\u0628<\/b> <\/b>(\u0642\u0648\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u064a \u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d \u0641\u0627\u0633\u062f)<\/b> <\/b>\u0648\u0645\u062b\u0644\u0647 \u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0639\u062a\u062f\u0629<\/b><\/p>\n

(Durr Mukhtaar with Shaami 3\/534) (ibid 3\/409) (Shaami 3\/131)
\nQuestion:<\/span>
\nA woman\u2019s husband has died and she is in her e’ddah. She will like to marry off her son. Is she allowed to marry off her son in e’ddah? How long does she has to practice on Hidaad?
\nAnswer:<\/span><\/p>\n

The mother is allowed to consult her son concerning his nikah while she is in e’ddah. It is not prohibited. However, she should not join in the happiness of the nikah. During the nikah she will continue to wear the simple clothing she was wearing in her e’ddah. She will not wear any new or nice clothing. She will not apply henna or any makeup. She will not exit the house. As long as she is in e’ddah hidaad is necessary.<\/p>\n

(Fatawa Rahimiyyah 6\/427-428)<\/p>\n

The above Q & A also shows the importance and obligation of hidaad in e’ddah.<\/p>\n

In the end of {verse 1 of Surah Talaq} mentioned above Allah warns:<\/p>\n

\u201cThese are the boundaries of Allah, whosoever transgresses the boundaries of Allah has oppressed themselves.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ahkaamul E’ddah Allah Ta’aalaa commands in the Quran: \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0637\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0651\u0642\u064e\u0627\u062a\u064f \u064a\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0651\u0635\u0652\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0623\u064e\u0646\u0641\u064f\u0633\u0650\u0647\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0651 \u062b\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0642\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u064e\u0621\u064d \u00a0“The divorcee will wait for three “haidh”(menstrual cycles). {Baqarah: 228} \u0644\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u062e\u0652\u0631\u0650\u062c\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0651…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_editorskit_title_hidden":false,"_editorskit_reading_time":0,"_editorskit_is_block_options_detached":false,"_editorskit_block_options_position":"{}","footnotes":""},"categories":[60,10,29],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1331","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nikah-talaq-etc","category-research-articles","category-women-issues","wpcat-60-id","wpcat-10-id","wpcat-29-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1331","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1331"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1331\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1331"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1331"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fiqhulislam.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1331"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}